THE ART OF ATTRACTION

When you are provoked, you must have the strength to smile and not answer. That is exactly the moment she decides for both of you.

If you don’t have the grounding to start an intelligent conversation, manage the silence. Silence is the only argument that cannot be misunderstood.

Women are allowed to say whatever they want. Men are convinced they do whatever they want. Those are two very different things. This is the small secret almost no one tells.

Attraction is not born when you speak. It is born when you choose what not to say.

It is not a matter of strength. It is not a matter of control. It is a matter of presence. Of attention. Of timing.

And above all, of the ability to smile when your ego tells you to react. The ego wants to win the argument. Attraction is not interested in the argument.

Attraction observes. And decides.

Ferdinando